If ever there were a season that is a challenge to relationships, it's the winter holidays, from Thanksgiving through the New Year. You see, we all have grown up with our family traditions, and we hold them dear. It's just that rarely do our traditions look the same as our partner's. And even if they do, there are extended families to consider.
Who will you spend which parts of the holidays with? How will you handle gift giving? Does one family typically give more than the other? How do you incorporate traditions such as favorite foods, religious services, decorating rituals, entertaining, etc.? When we become part of a couple, those traditions must be considered and merged. That is often not easy when they are so much a part of our best family memories.
What difficulties have you and your partner had in negotiating the holidays? What has worked well for you? How have you arrived at compromise that you can both agree to? I'd love for you to share your thoughts.
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